Signs You Are Being Pressured Into An Abortion Decision

Pressure to have an abortion can be subtle, and many times, when it’s coming from those closest to us, it can be overlooked or dismissed.

We often think that our partner, family, or friends want what is best for us, which may be true.

However, it is vital to address the pressure you’re experiencing and create boundaries moving forward so you don’t get coerced into making a decision you don’t want to make.

Remember, it is your pregnancy, and you are the only one who has the legal right to make your pregnancy decision.

Continue reading to learn more about recognizing pressure from those closest to you.

Signs of Pressure

Threats and Manipulation

Your safety is of the utmost importance. Your partner or family may threaten you by saying they’ll cut you off if you don’t have an abortion or, even worse, harm you. You need to address these threats immediately.

If you are in an abusive relationship or feel like you’re being physically threatened, call the Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE to make a plan to keep you safe. If you’re ever in immediate danger, call 911 right away and leave the situation.

Encouraging a Quick Decision

One way those closest to you can pressure you into a pregnancy decision is by trying to rush you into making a decision. They may discourage you from doing research and taking time to explore all your options.

Abortion is a life-changing decision, and if anyone is encouraging you to decide quickly, this can be a sign of pressure.

Ignoring Your Desires

If you share your desire to place your child for adoption or become a parent and those closest to you don’t respond, your family and friends may be passively pressuring you into having an abortion. Don’t let them dismiss your feelings.

Making You Feel Uneasy

If you feel uncomfortable discussing your pregnancy with a particular individual, consider why they make you feel this way. You may be able to sense pressure from individuals even when it is incredibly subtle. Always remember that you don’t have to discuss your pregnancy decision with anyone who doesn’t give you the respect you deserve.

Get Help Today

Facing a pregnancy decision without the support of your loved ones can feel overwhelming, but you shouldn’t have to walk this journey alone.

Alpha Pregnancy Care Center is here to help.

We provide free lab-quality pregnancy testing and ultrasound scans so you can learn more about your pregnancy.

Our trained staff can answer your questions, discuss your options, and provide you with support and resources.